Have you come face to face with your inner Grinch yet?

The pressure to pull of a perfect holiday can lure that ghastly green guy to the surface at the most inopportune time.  The secret to sending him safely back to his cave lies in having an attitude of gratitude – a tool that will serve you not just during the holidays, but all year long.

The last Holiday De-stress strategy is all about nurturing your spirit.   Loving yourself for the powerful light worker you truly are allows your light to shine through regardless of  your life or family circumstances.

Holidays bring families together which, let’s face it,  can bring out the worst in the best of us.

Why is it that you are an accomplished, successful grown up everywhere on the planet yet the minute you are around your family, you become that 10 year old kid no one listens to?

Family dynamics are complicated dances and can push every button in your body.  What’s an otherwise sane and rational person to do?

You know you can’t change anyone except yourself, so how about trying on a new perspective?  What if you take the meaning of the holidays to heart and just let it all go?

When your mother in law criticizes your cooking, what would happen if you smiled and let it roll off your back?  Imagine her surprise!

Charity starts at home and accepting your family members for who they are (warts and all) is the greatest gift you could give them or yourself for that matter.  There is always something to appreciate about your family and cultivating an attitude of gratitude is the gift that keeps on giving.

Find something small to appreciate and get your focus off yourself.  Nurture your spirit by practicing empathy and performing charitable acts that involve taking personal action.  Research shows that if you volunteer or give to charity, you usually feel pretty good about yourself.

Remember, happiness is an inside job.  So take firm hold of your happiness reigns this holiday season and enjoy.